Learn

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him
away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a
man’s character, leave him alone.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.

6. Don’t force an attraction.

7. Slower is better.

8. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.

9. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no you
can’t "be friends." A friend wouldn’t mistreat a
friend.

10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,
but don’t let faith make you stupid. God does
things decent and in order.

11. Don’t settle.

12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then
he probably is.

13. If he keeps changing his mind about the
relationship–take that as a BIG sign that he is
unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like
that?

14. Don’t stay because you think "it will get
better." You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for
staying when things are not better.

15. Honorable men take care of their business
and aren’t involved in a
whole lot of mess.

16. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.

17. There’s only one ‘reason’ a man dumps you;
he doesn’t want you.

18. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them
when he got them pregnant, why would he treat
yo u any differently?

19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before
finding the prince.

20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

21. Always have your own set of friends separate
from his.

22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.

23. If he doesn’t call, he just isn’t that interested.

24. Be honest and upfront.

25. Know when to cut the cord, don’t be strung
along.

26. Don’t fall for the "I’m confused role". Remove
yourself from the situation to let him figure things
out (but don’t wait for him, move on).

27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will
treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his
family (not just mom).

28. There’s more than physical abuse, there’s
emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of
them…flee.

29. You cannot change a man’s behaviors.
Change comes from within.

30. Don’t let him place rules on you that he is not
willing to follow himself — double-standard.

31. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are…even if he has more
education or in a better job.

32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a
man, nothing more nothing less.

33. Demand respect and if he can’t give it, he
can’t have you!

34. Don’t compete with other woman, but be
aware that men are attracted to what they see.

35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.
Confront him right away and if you feel he’s lying,
let him go.

36. Actions speak louder than words.

37. Never let a man define who you are.

38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to
yourself for that.

39. Never borrow someone else’s man.

40. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn’t
mean that he won’t hurt you and it doesn’t mean
that you are meant to be wi th him.

42. To use painful hard-won wisdom — ‘get it right’
the next time.

43. Know that you deserve to be the number one
person in the life of the #1 person in your life.

44. Love is a verb …

45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to
make someone unavailable-available, someone
ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW